The Steven Stayner
& Missing Children's Memorial
Help find missing children
Many abducted children have been returned because people have recognized a face from a poster. So please, when you see a picture of a missing child on a poster, in a magazine or on a postcard, take the time to see if you recognize that child.
Unfortunately, abductors take steps to change a child's appearance. Children change over time and there are so many faces to remember.
Possible signs of an abducted child and what to look for:
- Incomplete or un-forwarded school records.
- No birth certificate.
- No verification of immunization shots and missing medical and dental records.
- The child seems withdrawn or neglected.
- The child seems fearful of parent(s) or guardian(s).
- The child has behavioral or academic problems. They may lie frequently trying to cover up the truth about their life.
- Attendance at school is often sporadic. They don't take part in any after-school activities.
- There seems to be inconsistencies in names, dates of birth, addresses and past events.
- Attendance at many different schools.
- Reluctance to give school personnel any personal or family information.
- Sometimes they're confused about their real name and don't seem to trust anyone.
- The child seems fearful of law enforcement.
- The child may not remember the other parent.
- The other parent may be listed as deceased or unknown or not listed at all on emergency information documents.
- The "parent" may be overprotective and keeps very close tabs on the child's activities, friends and comments.
- The child may have dyed hair or has other appearance modifications.
- You should be sensitive to any "family" situation that doesn't feel right. The most common non-family abductor relationship is a single child with a single man who is passing as the "father" or "grandfather".
- Abductors and their victims generally move around a lot to keep from being found out. As a result, abducted children live a transient life, often living in out-of-the-way cabins and trailer parks. With little sense of stability, they don't make friends or fit in easily.
- The child may not wear properly fitting clothes.
- The child is reluctant to talk about where they lived in the past.
- The child never invites friends to their home.
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If you are aware of behaviors, and you know what to look for, there are many clues that can actually be even more effective in helping you spot an abducted child. Because many abducted children are told by their abductors that their parents don't want them, abducted children feel dependent on their abductors for survival. They almost live in fear of being "found out".
Trust your instincts. If you see a situation that seems suspicious, call your local law enforcement.
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